The Mini Date

Two special friends of mine shared on Facebook the other day that they were on a mini date. They even posted pictures to commemorate the occasion. This couple of love birds took to the ice at an outdoor rink and spent a few hours alone together while the kids were at school. The pictures clearly showed them having a wonderful time, and by sharing their happiness, they actually helped cheer my rather ordinary work day.

I'm told that the simple but happy outing was the husband's idea, and cost less than $15 including skate rental. Apparently, he even tried to teach his wife to skate backwards; and when I pressed, I was told that, "yes" they even held hands.

I like the idea that mini dates are still possible and that expensive dinners, flashy jewelry, and exotic travel are not the only ways to show love and affection. It's nice to know that just spending time together still enriches the relationship and strengthens the bond; and, it's important to acknowledge when someone turns a seemingly ordinary day into an extraordinarily happy adventure.

Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, and my fellow love bird and I are planning a mini date of our own. Our discounted Toronto Home Show tickets will allow us hours of viewing weird and wonderful home related products, exploring exiting renovation possibilities and just spending time alone together. We're simply opting out of the hype of "traditional" Valentine's celebrations and substituting ordinary togetherness, and a lot of hand-holding, too.

Happy mini date, everyone!